Bullying(updated)

Hi, guys. Today i am going to talk on VERBAL/PHISYCAL bullying. I am just going to give you all a brief summary of the two types of bullying. You all knew the general idea of bullying that it is a form of teasing or taunting people. But do you know the true meaning of bullying?



There are altogether 4 types of bullying: Physical, verbal, psychological and cyber. (i only wanted to give my views on the first two)These 4 types are totally different types of bullying. I will be touching on physical bullying first.



Physical bullying is an act of intentionally causing harm to others, through physical harassment, physical assault, or other more subtle methods of coercion such as manipulation. Physical bullying includes hitting, kicking, slapping, pinching, biting, poking and choking. It also includes destroying personal belongings. One way to avoid physical bullying is to stay in a large group of friends. Or, If you are in school, try taking a different route to your classes then the bully. As we all know, physical bullying is the most well known and common bullying nowadays other than cyber bullying. Physical bullying occurs regularly in modern times and i am not surprised to find at least a few times some gangs harrassing weak boys these days.


Verbal bullying is also common. In fact, sometimes, students insult one another by calling them names like fatso. But in some cases, the students did that purely for fun and entertainment. The opposite party seemed that he or she is laughing and having a good time, but in actual fact, they were miserable in their hearts. Their friends' words have made a huge impact on them and it made them lose their happiness and be alone. The really serious cases of bullying is when people scold and swear ar each other. That is unacceptable/incorrigible behaviour! i mean, how can you curse and scold your friends? Let me share with you a personal experience. Recently, i saw some boys saying bad words to scold each other just because one of them just took another boy's eraser without permission. Taking other people's things without permission is not very nice, but, i mean, it should not go as far as swearing at one another right? It is just over a storm in a teacup. Verbal bullying may not seem serious, but in the latter's mind, he/she will probably feel hurt and pain as they really thought that the other party dislikes/hates him/her. ALmost everywhere: bus stops, coffee shops, classrooms...... There will always be a few jokers trying to create fun by starting to call people names. I know that as i witnessed many such acts and am not afraid to say that i am a victim of it too. I know that when you call friends "fatty" or whatsoever, he will seem to laugh and the whole thing was over in a minute. However, in his mind, questions were raised like,"does he really hates me? When will our friendship end?" The victim will become very depressed .


I hope we could all treat each other with due respect and not tease them.